There is nothing you MUST

How many times have you heard people around you telling you that “you MUST” do this, or you MUST do that, or you should, or you ought to do whatever? Or even speaking about themselves and saying: “I must do this or that”.  In the end, after hearing these words so many times in our […]

9 ways to deal with Anxiety on the spot

Anxiety is Fear of the unknown: that we do not have control over our surroundings which is followed by not knowing how we are going to react in certain circumstances. What to say, what to do. Ok, we wanted to be/or not in this particular situation (doesn’t matter which). Now what. I have no idea […]


I wonder if you ever used this word, and in what context? What does it mean, “maintenance”? Maintenance means when you take your car to the garage, check that is running well, and you are not risking any accidents on the road. Maintenance is when you are cleaning the house to breathe clean air and […]

Needs and communication in relationships

Couple’s therapy. I always admire people who decide to go into couple’s therapy. That is a sign that they want to work on their relationship and understand each other. I suppose you may already have noticed that all relationships require work. It does not matter if we are talking about friendships or love relationships or […]


Anger is one of the primary feelings we have, and it is meant to protect us.  Anger is the emotion we feel in the present moment, and it has to do with the trespassing of personal boundaries or territories. When our values or something essential for us is threatened, we get angry and irritated. We are willing to […]

How therapy works

When I say that I have therapy praxis, I notice different reactions from people. Some stop for some seconds and try to digest what they’ve heard. Others answer with long: “Ooooookeeeeyyy!” or “Interesting”. And the conversation stops there. With time I realized that people around me have a different understanding of what “therapy” means than […]

Migration of Emotion

Behind the decision of moving, working and living in another country always lies a feeling; one that gives us the necessary energy to proceed with the action. I like to call it Migration of Emotion because we take with us our feelings about how it is going to be in the new place to which […]

The Invisible Luggage

People move a lot, generally. Move from a house to another, from a city to another, from one country to another. But why do they do that? What is it that makes them choose “the moving” move? In my experience people move because they believe that somewhere else they will feel better. They will have […]

The Child King : food for thought

The concept of children as “Kings” and “Queens” is a special one. We do not often come across it, even if it makes sense. Children are our future. The way we take care of them shows how we take care of our future. Therefore, the way we raise our children is important. Norway and Scandinavia […]

Nothing is lost, but changed

    Recently, I’ve been asked how living in Norway has changed me? Well, it changed me in many ways. I have learned a lot about myself and about others. I have learned what it means to be a human being and what it means to be tolerant. The concept of “tolerance” doesn’t really exist […]

Speak the words, but not the culture

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